Hanging out #Glaikit

Glaikit is a Scots word that means 'not very bright' and it's the word that comes to mind whenever I see a baby with it's mouth hanging open. You know the ones I mean? They always look a bit 'doh', and I was so glad that Small Fry wasn't like that. But it serves me right, as Fingerling totally is. Her jaw is almost always loose and hanging, and I love it. Suddenly I find it amazingly cute. After all, it just makes it easier to break into a smile I guess :)
...at our baby sensory class...
...or in the house...
...that mouth loves to be open!
mouth + open = happy!

MIdnight feasts and other nocturnal sibling fun to come #AtLast

So, I've gone and done it. While Small Fry was away I moved Fingerling's cot into the small bedroom. It's cramped in there, but colourful and fun, and they will be able to keep each other company at all hours of the day or night. Small Fry didn't really want Fingerling in with him, but he shared with us for 14 months and I wasn't having that again. He quickly came round to some of the advantages of sharing with his little sister, such as being able to annoy her even when he's meant to be napping. 
I completely realise that we will probably initally sleep less, but it's the summer and it gives us plenty of time for everything to settle before school starts in September.

And as for us. Well, our furniture fits in again, we have room...room! I almost thought to myself, wow, what shall I put in all this space?! But for now we are just enjoying being able to turn the light on when we go to bed.

Girls' Weekend #Little&Large

El Puma had Seb's stag night (El Puma's best man) to attend close to home in Brittany and decided to make the journey by train. Small Fry went along for the ride with his papa and his Moon (La Moz) but stayed with her and Abuelo while papa went partying. It's only the second time we've been apart for a night and the first time that it's him doing the travelling without me. But he had his dad for the trip there and back, the weather was glorious, he got to go to the beach, stay up late and generally do some age-appropriate partying of his own. He certainly came back with attitude.

Us the girls stayed here in Paris. And Geneviève being similarly with only her little girl, we decided to have a ladies weekend. That meant lying in, going to a Yves Saint Laurent expo, enjoying the weather in the park, dinner (without the little ladies) and an afternoon play-date on Sunday. Here are some of our moments captured on camera:
Playing peekaboo with the 35 degree temperatures and sun protection




Champagne and Chateaux #OECDSummerParty

This year, for the annual OECD Summer Party, I decided to invite one of my mummy friends, Geneviève. Her little boy Asher is 3 weeks younger than Small Fry, and her daughter Molly is 4 months younger than Fingerling (thanks to a malfunctioning Fertility App on a Smartphone. Yes, really). Anyway, her other half and son were in the south of France for the weekend, and I had a fantastic in-house babysitting service (aka La Moz. Merci!). 

It was a hot and sticky night (hence face-shine), but we had a lot of fun sipping champagne on the grass in front of the Chateau, and finding our way a few too many times to the Bonbon Bar (that is not a euphemism). I also got to catch up with my ever-dwindling OECD network (mostly thanks to retirement) and pick up a couple of business cards (retirement is not what it used to be).
Polite partying
Er...later...

The importance of words #JustStartingOut

Small Fry is starting to differentiate between English and French. Actually, he's only 2 and a half, but language is already so formed in his head that he doesn't 'understand' German and Spanish. Given a few days in a Spanish or German context and he does say a few words and seems to follow basic instructions (I suppose a lot of language is also non-verbal and contextual), but already he doesn't understand when we read some of his Spanish and German books.

It seems that nuances go even further. The other day he lifted us his red lego tractor and said in French, This is a trrractorrr. I call it a trrractorrr (with beautiful rolling rs), but mama calls it a chractor (nothing beautiful about that version!). His English use is starting to pick up slightly from about 10% of his total vocabulary, but I am resolutely stubborn about not speaking to him in any other language. The big question now is how far to take it into his formal education...

9 months! #AsLongOutAsIn #Take2

9 months ago today exactly (on a Monday too), we met our little Fingerling...
 ...who is such a delight...
 ...just like her big brother at the same age:

Longest day #Musical

Our longest day of the year was again accompanied musically for most of it. I think I've blogged about the fête de la musique a bajillion times...ever since, well, probably ever since my blog began. You can check if you have time for such things.

This year things were a little different. For starters, Small Fry joined us. But that's mainly because where Sound Policy played this year was just 2 metro stops away in the closest suburb (Clichy) to our home. Normally the band plays right in the middle of the Latin Quarter which is a nightmare to get home from in the middle of the night, but they are refurbishing the market this year and so all the pubs are shuttered and the pavement closed off. The keyboardist's brother in law is the cultural attaché at Clichy city hall (Mairie), and so this year the band instead got to be one of the opening acts on the official sound stage of the Mairie de Clichy. So there was actually proper sound this year. With professionals running the show. Which meant we could hear every mistake. Just kidding - it was a lot of fun. And as it had to be family friendly, it started at 1930 and only pushed Small Fry's bedtime back by an hour or so, which is not ideal for a Sunday night (surprise surprise).
Pacotio arrived back from Peru just in time to do all the heavy lifting of carrying a tired Small Fry home. 
Dat's my papa (on the left under the blue balloon)
Heading home and close to our street was this DJ playing electronic music from his balcony 
Having dropped Small Fry off in bed with his Moon (granny) looking after him, we headed back out to our local pub Le Manoir for their folksy band that plays every year. And when the light finally left the sky, we headed home.

La vie en Rosé #WishfulThinking

9 months is SUCH as nice age. Fingerling has strength and agility but is not yet mobile. She's cuddly but not too heavy, robust, round and smiley. Unlike her big brother who is a pusher, shover, squuezer, tease, biter, annoyer and yeller. He still gives wonderful cuddles, but he will not come/go/stop/start/get dressed/undressed or anything else I ask him to do. So I just keep cuddling my baby. Surely she'll never be like that.

In other news, I ate snail (haven't done for years. It tasted better than I remember. Actually, all it really tasted of is the garlic butter it came in), exploded the tyre of the double buggy (thanks to some glass. And really, not having the double buggy is a nightmare in this heat as I have to carry Fingerling everwhere), and spend almost every afternoon down at the 'splash pad' (fun fountains in the park). And of course cuddle and yell alternately.


A Case in Pink #Fingerling'sDay

With the babysitter (an ex-colleague) while her mama is at a pilates class 
New shoes





Turned 180 degrees
Playtime

Images from the weekend #CocktailsSpyingRelaxingBoating

We arrived back in Paris to a bit of a mini-heatwave, which is just as well as I was hosting my postponed birthday cocktails. We dropped the heels + red lips theme and opted instead for casual park attire, unfortunately contributing quite a lot to the overflowing bins.
At the weekend we also tested out our latest purchase: a video camera that beams what's happening inside Small Fry's bedroom directly to my iphone. I think this might be very useful once the two kiddies start sleeping in the same room.
A happy Fingerling in her new dress from Oma

And a VERY happy Small Fry, reunited with his best bud and lookalike twin:

Home Sweet Home #Scotland

This time we decided to do things differently. Mainly it's because when we go to Scotland, I catch up with my friends, see a load of people (sometimes with the kids, sometimes without, sometimes with El Puma, sometimes without) and basically, El Puma doesn't really get to see much of Scotland. Or anything apart from the inside of cafés and friends' houses. So recently he's taken to teleworking, which means he can save days for other trips, and also means he's occupied while I drink hot chocolate around the town/shop/chat/shop and chat some more.

But Scotland is beautiful and I miss it. There's also lots of things I don't miss, but (aside from my family and friends) I really miss the shops (especially supermarkets!), the Olympic-sized swimming pool, the fresh air, the clean drinkable water, even the food, and yes, even sometimes the wind. It can rattle your bones and bring tears to your eyes, but it doesn't half clean out the cobwebs. And give you a cold. I came back dalking dike dhis.

Anyway, we decided to take up my PhD supervisor's offer of visiting him in Nairn, in the north of Scotland. It's just north of the big green patch on the map below, halfway between Inverness and Elgin. On his suggestion, we left the A9 at Aviemore and went cross-country over the Dava Moor to Nairn.
And what a beautiful and wild route it was.
After I graduated 2 years ago, Jimmy was diagnosed with lung cancer and eventually had the whole of the left lung removed. He has made a full recovery, but it resulted in a reprioritisation, and his career no longer made the cut. Instead he took early retirement, put their house near Stirling on the market, bought a fisherman's cottage in the narrow-streeted harbour-side Fishertown of Nairn and started inviting people over. They also found a spectacular plot of land alongside the river Nairn and have purchased it with the intention of building their own eco-house. The terraces have already been restored and the land and at the top of the plot scooped out. We had a look at the plans and there's nothing for it but to come back in a year or so to experience it for ourselves.
Looking up the plot of land to where the house will be built
Looking down from the terraces to the river
Between Fishertown and the villas of the 'West End' is the beach. The wind, tide, sand dunes and golf coursses brought back many memories of my St Andrews days. 
Just a little wind


Our little Parisian, totally unimpressed.

This is from the harbour, taken around 10pm
We stayed for 2 nights in Nairn and so also had time to visit Brodie Castle, now owned by the National Trust for Scotland and known for its magnificent....adventure playground.




The whole length of the Moray Coast is absolutely beautiful. One of the beaches along from Nairn is called Findhorne, and seals and dolphins can regularly be found sheltering near the bay. The seaward side is a pebble beach, which suited Small Fry's stone-collecting tendancies (he came back with his pockets full of them).
The sea-side
Pebble beach
Bay-side
The bay
Our final expedition in Nairn involved going to see the local Highland cows. Small Fry was convinced that the cows on our last trip to Picardie were going to eat him, and apparently the fear is not limited to French cows. So he stood well back, but we got a good look at them anyway. It wasn't on the official tourst trail but we did also pass Tilda Swinton's house on the way - she's been living there since 2007.
And finishing off our 'different' trip this time involved seeing a Polar Bear at the Highland Wildlife Park outside Aviemore. We arrived in time to watch them eating their lunch and had a good chat with their gamekeeper. It had begun to rain by this point and the wind had picked up, so I guess they felt near enough at home. Which is where we wanted to be, and off we zoomed.
There were many other things that thankfully weren't different this time - such as Oma's hospitality and seeing Tante Margret and Uncle Stan (as well as the German aunt and uncle with whom we crossed paths for one night). As well as a couple of chats, shops and hot chocolate of course.

Resolutions and Reality #Q12026